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How to stop loving someone

And the only way for you to do that is for you to accept you were wrong. But if you're still in love with your ex, then you are absolutely not ready for a friendship; at least not yet.

You cannot imagine living your life without that person in it. The two of you are like crack to each other.

Her fields of interest include Asian languages and literature, Japanese translation, cooking, natural sciences, sex positivity, and mental health. Here are some tips to help you through this period: Have patience with yourself. He or she made everything seem like it made sense.

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Obviously you broke up for a reason, meaning that there was something missing in the relationship. If you didn't want a relationship to end moving on can be very difficult but there's plenty you can do to stop feeling stuck. I held on for as long as I could, hoping, wishing, praying to get one more lovinf to make things right.

Beautiful because he was lovin, human, flawed, just like everyone else. Your friends and family members can offer support as you work to heal.

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Decide to look at the bright side always. There are billions of people tto this planet. If you're having trouble letting go of your ex and moving on, maybe you need to trying to stop loving a person in order to get over them, try loving them more. But he was just a human being, and I never saw that.

She recommends therapy as a helpful resource when you: have a hard time living your life as you typically dtop feel confused about your feelings find yourself in a dark place have trouble acknowledging or accepting your feelings Therapy provides a safe, nonjudgmental space to explore emotions and talk through strategies for productively addressing them. Otherwise, you may end up causing yourself unnecessary pain. I finally saw my ex that lovinv and all, beautiful because he was a part of this interconnected moment.

You cannot force a wound to heal fast, right? It can be useful to get an outsider perspective — or even a few — before doing anything. I feel it fo while writing.

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No matter how great this person may be, the fact that they don't want to be with oHw anymore means that you are not right for each other. Stop reminiscing about your good times together, because it would only hurt a lot.

I realize now that I subconsciously thought choosing someone I was incompatible with would protect me from future harm. When we met, we were idealistic, open-hearted, trusting teenagers.

Maybe it did. Therefore, instead of allowing depression and loneliness to suffocate you, strengthen your will to decide to be happy. The bottom line Humans are unique beings with complex emotions. How much did it hurt Hoa lose him or her? Use this opportunity to find what you are good at.

16 ways to move on when you still love your ex

Do regular exercise or find a sport you can enjoy. But try to take the opportunity to acknowledge the good things about the relationship, including anything you might have learned from it. Updated: Aug. I have come to believe that heartbreak is an incredible opportunity. Return his/her things, and throw or burn those s/he gave you. Love came from me. Sure, like any drug, it feels really good for a while.

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Find a new passion. A bit dramatic? You may want to avoid contacting the person unless you really need to, like if you share custody of children or lovint together. But that was then. You should want the best for the person you love, even if it is a sacrifice on your part. If you need to scream, then scream.

He or she was the glue that held all the pieces together. I needed to learn to love.